Are there things that you let your second born (or third, fourth, etc.) do that you would never let your first born do at that same age? Take my kids for example: I never would have let 2 year old L use a knife or scissors but H wants to do what his big brother does…ALWAYS.
I was cutting strawberries and H wanted to help. I do my best to explain that there certain things he isn’t able to do yet because of danger and I think he understands those things. He has used a knife before more for pretend, but today was the day he wanted to put his practice to use.
My boys are supervised at all times, especially when potentially dangerous situations could happen. Ok, let’s be real…kids can turn any situation into something dangerous!
They know how to carefully carry scissors, but we have practiced with play scissors. Same goes for knives or tools! We have given our children some toys that they get to be just like us, whether that’s a play kitchen, tool kit, cars, Doctor kits, etc…they aren’t just playing for fun, they are using their imagination and also practicing good skills to have!
I think my first born taught me to be cautious. My second is teaching me to loosen the reigns a bit. I am helping them use the skills that they are learning to put all of that knowledge to good use!